Thanks to: http://soundofheart.org/galacticfreepress/content/creator-writings-bending

If you allow yourself to be bent or allow others to bend you to their will through spoken or unspoken expectation, it is a recipe for disaster and self-loathing. Stay true to who you are and what you want from your Earth-plane existence. Stand in integrity, it is the true path to what you want to accomplish. ~ Creator